JerkFace
07-11-2005, 02:27 PM
INTRODUCTION- Tell us a little about yourself..
My name is Emily AS OF THIS MOMENT I am being bombarded by pop-ups. lol No Im 24 years old and I am single with no children, no pets or boyfriend. I *attend Baker College in Clinton twp where I also live. I am going to Baker to become a radiologist and hopefully after I get into a good hospital I will finish my teaching degree. mY FAMILY INCLUDES my two brothers who are 1 and 21 years old and my younger sister who is 19, she is engaged and going to be married before me.My parents are divorced, i just think some people grow up and change and arent meant for eachother. But I have seen the mistakes they make and I know to find the right one for me and make sure that we are compatible before we are married. I also have a family dog he is a dalmation and his name is Zack he is 13 years old.
FAVORITES
Color- * it is a tie between green and purple. Actually I love every color of the rainbow
Music- My ultimate favorite music is R&B, but in my collection you will find everything from country to alternative
Food- *anything mexican! laquido taco bell! i eat taco bell atleast twice a week. and i loveeeeeeeeeee Pizza * *
Colonge/Perfume- Channel Chance and i love simply by clinique
Celebrity- Jessica Simpson(she may be a ditz but the person she is makes her so beautiful inside and out!
Quote- "NO matter what a women looks like, if shes confident,shes sexy" Paris Hilton
Position- fetal, i like to sleep on my side like a baby lol I know thats not what he meant i like them all baby!
Sport- Basketball, I love watching and playing, Chauncy Billups will be my babies daddy one day.
Tooth paste- Colgate, its the only tooth paste that really doesnt make me gag
Razor- anything cheap, but usually venus
Snack- pringles, i swear the saying is true "once you pop you cant stop"
FAVORITE MEMBER/S
Well i will not single anyone out because I do love everybody. But those I know and have hung out with I do have to say I ove the most.
Rita-I think we will eventually grow old together, getting ourselves into predicments that just make us laugh so hard we cry. Thats why I love Rita because we can act immature together.
Sam-
Renee- I adore her because shes one of the only chaldean women that isnt afraid to be herself. She is a wonderful well rounded woman someone that I could talk to about my problems and she wouldnt judge me.Somebody that you could look up to.She is just awesome.She just needs to move to Michigan so we could hit the topless bars! She is like the big sister I have never had
FUNNIEST MEMBER/S
Sam and Rita they have been the only ones so far that have made me laugh i almost peed my pants. Actually I take that back, Rita succeeded there.
MOST INTERESTING MEMBER/S
Miss baghdad shes just like me, she wants to be an actress and thats what I have always wanted to do, i just never thought I was good enough, but shes following her dream and I am proud of her for it, because shes not afraid to go out there and give it all she has got! *She should hook me up with her agent though.
Why did you join chaldean.chat? & why did you stay?
loooonnngggg story! but to make a long story short, i met Rita from her accidentally calling me for some reason she gave me her screen name, me being nosey i checked her profile and she had the link so i checked it out and I have been here ever since.
Why did you wanna do this interview so bad?
hey u approached me buddy! lol j/k I just wanted people to get an idea of who I really am.
Do you ever get people telling you to leave the site cause your not chaldean?
never, i think that would be really rude and id hate to have to bitch slap that person!
Does it bother you that people before they talk to you have this vision of you being the biggest hoe?
did i miss that memo? I wasnt aware of that and if i am am, i have one thing to say to thsoe people, Dont hate cuz im getting more than you are! lol no really im not, but if im a hoe because i work at a strip club as a WAITRESS/SHOT GIRL/DOOR GIRL, then so be it. Im making money to support myself, awesome money i may add, and i support myself more than I can say for the haters out there that are still living with their parents!
What is your status?
Single, I kind of like it that way, i was in a relationship for five years and i never went out and did anything, Now im starting to live my life and having fun.
Why do you always have guy trouble?
who says that? I guess i pick the guys that are out of my reach because subconsciensly i like the challenge.
Do you think it would be easier to just become a lesbian?
I will be the first to tell you that! but to be honest I could never get that close to a woman as beautiful as we all are I could never do anything. Though Renee is an exception to the rule. * and besides there are too many lesbians in my family
What was your first date like? How old were you? What did you do?
Well I went out with this guy James, I was in 8th grade my mom took us to the movies and taco bell! we we went and saw that movie wolf i think with jack nicholson and michelle pfeiffer. Throughout the whole movie i could tell he wanted to kiss me! well i wanted to kiss him to because i am a hoe, ya know. But we could never build up enough courage to just kiss. So throughtout the whole movie we rubbed eachothers arms. For what reason I dont know.
Do you have a talent?
Not to toot my own horn, but "toot toot" I am a good dancer. All day at work i dance to the music, i cant help it i love music and i love to dance. I have been told that i am a good dancer so i believe that is my talent.
Are you a pessimistic person or optimistic?
I think im optimistic. I try to see the brighter side to things .
Do you believe in disciplining a child (common slap on the hand, butt, etc.) or do you thing grounding them is the best thing? I was spanked growing up, i dont know how i feel on it today because i dont have children yet. On the other hand I was grounded a majority of my teenage life, only because my dad was very harsh on me. I couldnt do anything, my younger brothers curfew was later than mine at 17, and i would have the tendacy to sneak out and get caught. I dont see anything wrong with a spanking just as long as you dont go overboard and literally beat your child. I dont want my children to fear me but I do want them to know they can not take advantage of me. Children need structure in their life so yes I do believe in disciplining my children, if i didnt they would be wild and out of control.
Whats the first thing that comes to mind when you see these names?
SamIam --this guy is a freaking nut! but i love him for it! I mean what other 26 year old would go through a grocery store in a shopping cart? but I am proud of him for buying a house and acheiving his goals!
Yeah Im Chaldean --tries to hard! im going to be blunt but its only because I love you, it seems like you try to hard to be cool, and it doesnt work for you, Just be yourself! people will like you more!
Andys Wifey --pink! of course, I swear if it were back in the 50's i guarentee this one wouldve been one of the pink ladies from grease lol
Rudy --i dont know him so i think of that football movie "Rudy'
BONO --I think this guy is awesome. I mean really, how many chaldean guys love u2, metallica and all the heavy metal music? hes himself and i love him for it.
Chaldoqt4u2nv ---very critical
Samd [/b]---Google University, isnt that where he graduated from.?I dont know what to think of this guy, all we ever did was fight,argue and bicker. But if i knew we were face to face I could beat him up.
[b]What experiences have you gone through in your life that has influenced you to be the hoe(jk) the person you are today?
Living with my father, we dont see eye to eye and I want to be the exact opposite of what he is. Im being honest. Breaking up with my ex and going through the things i went through with him has also taught me about love. Being on my own since i was young and going through so much and learning about the real world has helped me to be the HOE that I am today
Are you a hopeless romantic?
:love: I love LOVE, i love the thought of being in love, i dream about love i want to hopefully find my true love one day, whereevr the hell he is at lol. I have been in love once and i would do romantic things for him, because thats what i think keeps a relationship alive. I just havent found that person who deserves it.
What observations have you made being around Chaldean people? what do you think separates them from white people or black people?
I have mixed opinions on chaldean people. So nobody hate me for what im about to say, because i am entitled to it. I try not to segregate against people or stereotype. We are no different frm eachother, we all breathe cry and have blood running through our veins. We just come from different backgrounds and thats the only difference between us. I totally hate the fact that sometimes they think that they are better than white people, im not saying all but a majority of them and you all know that. See i dont like this question because its hard to explain because not all of them are different. But the stereo type out there that I have heard time over and time again, is that they are very arrogant, they gossip, etc. etc and just other stupid things that white/black or chinese people could be as well. All i want to say to those chaldeans out ther, im no better than you and you are no better than me. Im so freaking (i want to say the real swear word but ill hold back) There is no difference between us, we are God's children, im open to you be open to me. oooohhhhhhhhh im frustrated, because i feel as if there is more i want to say but i dont know how toput the words together.
Many of the chaldean guys i meet wont hesitate to cheat on their girlfriends! and i have noticed that more in chaldos than i have in white people. I have seen it because i do hang out with a lot of chaldos. Just a few weeks ago i hubg out with this guy from highschool he tried to get freaky with me, and then come to findo ut he had a girlfriend for like 5 years. i pissed me off completely because why are you going to look at me as if im easy or something? thats what i hate is that they willl use white girls to get what they want, they think chaldeans girls are all soooo good and in reality they arent. Like some poeple i know on this site, that claims shes soooo pure and it really isnt true, just so she can find a man. Be yourself! if a man doesnt accept you for your past then he really isnt a man because hes a freaking hypocrit they can go out there and do everything but its not ok for you to do what you want,im not saying be a whore, but you know what i mean. its a double standard, but if he cant accept you for your past then he doesnt accept the person you are!
Gosh Jerkface that was tough question for me i know i didnt say all i wanted but i tried, im just angry i feel as if i have a deadline for an article and im sweatin g and working overtime to get it done.
but ine more thing, i hate the fact that some of you say i want to marry my own kind, we are all our own kind. why are we sooooo different from you because we canbt speak chaldean or arabic, how hard is it, i mean come on.if somebody loves you your going to deny that person because they cant speak chaldean and cant make dolma? You want to carry on your culture you dont want it to be dead? well there is no reason that you cant. if the person is open to your culture and learnign everything that comes with it, what is the problem? Marrying your own kind is selifhs and narrow minded. You habve adapted to the American culture why cant i adapt to the chaldean culture or anyother culture for that matter? for all of those against marrying or dating out of thier religion, i hate to break it to you but you are selfish and very narrow minded. Like umisays its not going to matter in the afterlife, were all going to the same place. God will not look down upon us for marrying someone that doesnt have the same culture as us. Ok i am done now cuz im going to go on and on. *i didnt make a point because i am frustrated. but all i do have to say is God didnt put us all together to stay with our own kind, he put us together so we could learn from one another. Oh and one more thng black and white people differ from chaldean people because we arent afraid of being who we are or being with who we love. give it time in the future they are going to be a lot more cross cultural marriages
Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
being famous! I have always dreamed of being an actress/dancer. I love to make people laugh, i love to entertain growing up i was always in plays. I also want to find my soulmate and start
Whats your biggest fear?
I have a lot! Driving with Rita (i swear i have panic attacks), driving in Detroit, flying in planes and tragically losing somebody I love. snakes and rats, just the thought of them makes me cringe.my family.
CONCLUSION...your final thoughts
im sorry if i offended anyone, i was just trying to speak my mind. I enjoy this site and i would love to be welcomed to visit and not be hated on! lol. i LOVE EVERYBODY ON THE SITE YOU GUYS ARE LIKE A FAMILY TO ME.I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH FROM EVERYONE AND EVERYBODY IS UNIQUE IN THEIR OWN WAY. i just hope everything *i said made sense because i am extremyl tired, i only had four hours of sleep *
My name is Emily AS OF THIS MOMENT I am being bombarded by pop-ups. lol No Im 24 years old and I am single with no children, no pets or boyfriend. I *attend Baker College in Clinton twp where I also live. I am going to Baker to become a radiologist and hopefully after I get into a good hospital I will finish my teaching degree. mY FAMILY INCLUDES my two brothers who are 1 and 21 years old and my younger sister who is 19, she is engaged and going to be married before me.My parents are divorced, i just think some people grow up and change and arent meant for eachother. But I have seen the mistakes they make and I know to find the right one for me and make sure that we are compatible before we are married. I also have a family dog he is a dalmation and his name is Zack he is 13 years old.
FAVORITES
Color- * it is a tie between green and purple. Actually I love every color of the rainbow
Music- My ultimate favorite music is R&B, but in my collection you will find everything from country to alternative
Food- *anything mexican! laquido taco bell! i eat taco bell atleast twice a week. and i loveeeeeeeeeee Pizza * *
Colonge/Perfume- Channel Chance and i love simply by clinique
Celebrity- Jessica Simpson(she may be a ditz but the person she is makes her so beautiful inside and out!
Quote- "NO matter what a women looks like, if shes confident,shes sexy" Paris Hilton
Position- fetal, i like to sleep on my side like a baby lol I know thats not what he meant i like them all baby!
Sport- Basketball, I love watching and playing, Chauncy Billups will be my babies daddy one day.
Tooth paste- Colgate, its the only tooth paste that really doesnt make me gag
Razor- anything cheap, but usually venus
Snack- pringles, i swear the saying is true "once you pop you cant stop"
FAVORITE MEMBER/S
Well i will not single anyone out because I do love everybody. But those I know and have hung out with I do have to say I ove the most.
Rita-I think we will eventually grow old together, getting ourselves into predicments that just make us laugh so hard we cry. Thats why I love Rita because we can act immature together.
Sam-
Renee- I adore her because shes one of the only chaldean women that isnt afraid to be herself. She is a wonderful well rounded woman someone that I could talk to about my problems and she wouldnt judge me.Somebody that you could look up to.She is just awesome.She just needs to move to Michigan so we could hit the topless bars! She is like the big sister I have never had
FUNNIEST MEMBER/S
Sam and Rita they have been the only ones so far that have made me laugh i almost peed my pants. Actually I take that back, Rita succeeded there.
MOST INTERESTING MEMBER/S
Miss baghdad shes just like me, she wants to be an actress and thats what I have always wanted to do, i just never thought I was good enough, but shes following her dream and I am proud of her for it, because shes not afraid to go out there and give it all she has got! *She should hook me up with her agent though.
Why did you join chaldean.chat? & why did you stay?
loooonnngggg story! but to make a long story short, i met Rita from her accidentally calling me for some reason she gave me her screen name, me being nosey i checked her profile and she had the link so i checked it out and I have been here ever since.
Why did you wanna do this interview so bad?
hey u approached me buddy! lol j/k I just wanted people to get an idea of who I really am.
Do you ever get people telling you to leave the site cause your not chaldean?
never, i think that would be really rude and id hate to have to bitch slap that person!
Does it bother you that people before they talk to you have this vision of you being the biggest hoe?
did i miss that memo? I wasnt aware of that and if i am am, i have one thing to say to thsoe people, Dont hate cuz im getting more than you are! lol no really im not, but if im a hoe because i work at a strip club as a WAITRESS/SHOT GIRL/DOOR GIRL, then so be it. Im making money to support myself, awesome money i may add, and i support myself more than I can say for the haters out there that are still living with their parents!
What is your status?
Single, I kind of like it that way, i was in a relationship for five years and i never went out and did anything, Now im starting to live my life and having fun.
Why do you always have guy trouble?
who says that? I guess i pick the guys that are out of my reach because subconsciensly i like the challenge.
Do you think it would be easier to just become a lesbian?
I will be the first to tell you that! but to be honest I could never get that close to a woman as beautiful as we all are I could never do anything. Though Renee is an exception to the rule. * and besides there are too many lesbians in my family
What was your first date like? How old were you? What did you do?
Well I went out with this guy James, I was in 8th grade my mom took us to the movies and taco bell! we we went and saw that movie wolf i think with jack nicholson and michelle pfeiffer. Throughout the whole movie i could tell he wanted to kiss me! well i wanted to kiss him to because i am a hoe, ya know. But we could never build up enough courage to just kiss. So throughtout the whole movie we rubbed eachothers arms. For what reason I dont know.
Do you have a talent?
Not to toot my own horn, but "toot toot" I am a good dancer. All day at work i dance to the music, i cant help it i love music and i love to dance. I have been told that i am a good dancer so i believe that is my talent.
Are you a pessimistic person or optimistic?
I think im optimistic. I try to see the brighter side to things .
Do you believe in disciplining a child (common slap on the hand, butt, etc.) or do you thing grounding them is the best thing? I was spanked growing up, i dont know how i feel on it today because i dont have children yet. On the other hand I was grounded a majority of my teenage life, only because my dad was very harsh on me. I couldnt do anything, my younger brothers curfew was later than mine at 17, and i would have the tendacy to sneak out and get caught. I dont see anything wrong with a spanking just as long as you dont go overboard and literally beat your child. I dont want my children to fear me but I do want them to know they can not take advantage of me. Children need structure in their life so yes I do believe in disciplining my children, if i didnt they would be wild and out of control.
Whats the first thing that comes to mind when you see these names?
SamIam --this guy is a freaking nut! but i love him for it! I mean what other 26 year old would go through a grocery store in a shopping cart? but I am proud of him for buying a house and acheiving his goals!
Yeah Im Chaldean --tries to hard! im going to be blunt but its only because I love you, it seems like you try to hard to be cool, and it doesnt work for you, Just be yourself! people will like you more!
Andys Wifey --pink! of course, I swear if it were back in the 50's i guarentee this one wouldve been one of the pink ladies from grease lol
Rudy --i dont know him so i think of that football movie "Rudy'
BONO --I think this guy is awesome. I mean really, how many chaldean guys love u2, metallica and all the heavy metal music? hes himself and i love him for it.
Chaldoqt4u2nv ---very critical
Samd [/b]---Google University, isnt that where he graduated from.?I dont know what to think of this guy, all we ever did was fight,argue and bicker. But if i knew we were face to face I could beat him up.
[b]What experiences have you gone through in your life that has influenced you to be the hoe(jk) the person you are today?
Living with my father, we dont see eye to eye and I want to be the exact opposite of what he is. Im being honest. Breaking up with my ex and going through the things i went through with him has also taught me about love. Being on my own since i was young and going through so much and learning about the real world has helped me to be the HOE that I am today
Are you a hopeless romantic?
:love: I love LOVE, i love the thought of being in love, i dream about love i want to hopefully find my true love one day, whereevr the hell he is at lol. I have been in love once and i would do romantic things for him, because thats what i think keeps a relationship alive. I just havent found that person who deserves it.
What observations have you made being around Chaldean people? what do you think separates them from white people or black people?
I have mixed opinions on chaldean people. So nobody hate me for what im about to say, because i am entitled to it. I try not to segregate against people or stereotype. We are no different frm eachother, we all breathe cry and have blood running through our veins. We just come from different backgrounds and thats the only difference between us. I totally hate the fact that sometimes they think that they are better than white people, im not saying all but a majority of them and you all know that. See i dont like this question because its hard to explain because not all of them are different. But the stereo type out there that I have heard time over and time again, is that they are very arrogant, they gossip, etc. etc and just other stupid things that white/black or chinese people could be as well. All i want to say to those chaldeans out ther, im no better than you and you are no better than me. Im so freaking (i want to say the real swear word but ill hold back) There is no difference between us, we are God's children, im open to you be open to me. oooohhhhhhhhh im frustrated, because i feel as if there is more i want to say but i dont know how toput the words together.
Many of the chaldean guys i meet wont hesitate to cheat on their girlfriends! and i have noticed that more in chaldos than i have in white people. I have seen it because i do hang out with a lot of chaldos. Just a few weeks ago i hubg out with this guy from highschool he tried to get freaky with me, and then come to findo ut he had a girlfriend for like 5 years. i pissed me off completely because why are you going to look at me as if im easy or something? thats what i hate is that they willl use white girls to get what they want, they think chaldeans girls are all soooo good and in reality they arent. Like some poeple i know on this site, that claims shes soooo pure and it really isnt true, just so she can find a man. Be yourself! if a man doesnt accept you for your past then he really isnt a man because hes a freaking hypocrit they can go out there and do everything but its not ok for you to do what you want,im not saying be a whore, but you know what i mean. its a double standard, but if he cant accept you for your past then he doesnt accept the person you are!
Gosh Jerkface that was tough question for me i know i didnt say all i wanted but i tried, im just angry i feel as if i have a deadline for an article and im sweatin g and working overtime to get it done.
but ine more thing, i hate the fact that some of you say i want to marry my own kind, we are all our own kind. why are we sooooo different from you because we canbt speak chaldean or arabic, how hard is it, i mean come on.if somebody loves you your going to deny that person because they cant speak chaldean and cant make dolma? You want to carry on your culture you dont want it to be dead? well there is no reason that you cant. if the person is open to your culture and learnign everything that comes with it, what is the problem? Marrying your own kind is selifhs and narrow minded. You habve adapted to the American culture why cant i adapt to the chaldean culture or anyother culture for that matter? for all of those against marrying or dating out of thier religion, i hate to break it to you but you are selfish and very narrow minded. Like umisays its not going to matter in the afterlife, were all going to the same place. God will not look down upon us for marrying someone that doesnt have the same culture as us. Ok i am done now cuz im going to go on and on. *i didnt make a point because i am frustrated. but all i do have to say is God didnt put us all together to stay with our own kind, he put us together so we could learn from one another. Oh and one more thng black and white people differ from chaldean people because we arent afraid of being who we are or being with who we love. give it time in the future they are going to be a lot more cross cultural marriages
Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
being famous! I have always dreamed of being an actress/dancer. I love to make people laugh, i love to entertain growing up i was always in plays. I also want to find my soulmate and start
Whats your biggest fear?
I have a lot! Driving with Rita (i swear i have panic attacks), driving in Detroit, flying in planes and tragically losing somebody I love. snakes and rats, just the thought of them makes me cringe.my family.
CONCLUSION...your final thoughts
im sorry if i offended anyone, i was just trying to speak my mind. I enjoy this site and i would love to be welcomed to visit and not be hated on! lol. i LOVE EVERYBODY ON THE SITE YOU GUYS ARE LIKE A FAMILY TO ME.I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH FROM EVERYONE AND EVERYBODY IS UNIQUE IN THEIR OWN WAY. i just hope everything *i said made sense because i am extremyl tired, i only had four hours of sleep *