question for all the fellaz

[Emily]

:oops: ok its kind of an icky subject, but here goes.....

if you were a minute man during :oops: sex, would it make you insecure?...or better yet, would you keep sleeping with people even though you got off too fast? :oops: ..............I meean girls really want a man to last during sex...iamsam, im trying to keep it clean :mrgreen: , But I just want to know how guys feel about their little problems..if i were a man and couldnt get a female off because i was done to quick, i'd :bang:

[SamIAM™]

well since you mention my name in your post i'll answer first ;)

A man ( well a normal one) can have more than one in a short peroid of time. So if i was the girl I'd realy wait for the second time to realy enjoy anything since the second always take way longer than the first !

So if i was you I'd get more excited about the second time..... :lol: lol and no I'd never fell insecure becuase that it just the way it is.

And just one peice of info: if a guy dont last that long it means that he realy realy likes you, and that you are so exciting that he cant hold him self :think:

How does the number 4 or 5 / session sounds to you ?


ok I'll get back to :beer: :mrgreen:

[Emily]

no this guy gets off tooo fast every time, and when i do go for a second round he cant get it back up again, is that normal and if you were the guy wouldnt you be embarassed? I mean its frustrating, whats the point in making love to this guy and he never gives you pleasure? If you knew that you couldnt fulfill a females needs would you have sex with her?

[SamIAM™]

no this guy gets off tooo fast every time, and when i do go for a second round he cant get it back up again, is that normal and if you were the guy wouldnt you be embarassed? I mean its frustrating, whats the point in making love to this guy and he never gives you pleasure? If you knew that you couldnt fulfill a females needs would you have sex with her?


this is gonna sound maybe mean, but I dont think this guy realy likes you too much, I mean if he realy did he'd be sexually attracted to you. Instead he is more into satisfying himself than you :think:

[Emily]

true true, but for the last two-three years hes been doing this. i think its something he may not be able to handle. i mean can guys really control it?

[KhIgGaAaAaAa]

first off pre-marital sex is wrong!!!!! aight that being said lol u should just tell the dude how u feel about it because initmacy is an mportant part of a relationship and if he isnt pleasing you then u should come 2 me lol haha na u should talk 2 him.

anyway the best way to get a girl to erupt is too have good foreplay, foreplay is the key to any good sexual experience. good foreplay is gonna get the girl so hot and bothered that she is sure to be pleased. anyway if u still do that and it dont work then u have problems. also guys can control it, u been with this guy for almost 3 yrs so so he should be able to control it by now, in the beginning its always goin 2 be harder to control it because your nervous and all this thoughts go thru your head but after a while u relax and u start to last longer, at least thats my experience. anywa if its so bad to the point where u come onto this forum and ask what to do then i sthink u should talk 2 the guy and let him know whats goin on and if he cares about u then he'll try and come up with solutions to the problem with u. thats my khemshee centeh!!!

p.s.- or my post could be irrelevant and U might just be THAT good!!! do u do yoga??? lol if thats the case then call me anyways!!! lol haha

[Rita]

A man who gets off so fast is basically interested in only one thing... to nut! LOL. Anyways, he doesn't care how you feel because he wants to satisfy himself and not worried about pleasing you. It's really a mental thing to a guy. He could stop for a second and if he keeps telling himself not to ejaculate, he won't. It could also be that you are no good and he doesn't want to waste another second inside you.

[Emily]

gee, Rita your harsh...I have asked a lot of guys tis question and I keep geting different information. But ill have to go with Sams answer :)

[Anonymous]

i would keep on doin and doin it right untill my you know what is hurting and untill she was satsified

[renee]

this is gonna sound maybe mean, but I dont think this guy realy likes you too much, I mean if he realy did he'd be sexually attracted to you. Instead he is more into satisfying himself than you :think:

Have to agree. I don't care how long it takes him to come. As long as he gets me off. Finger, tongue, penis, who cares?

[renee]

first off pre-marital sex is wrong!!!!!


Get real. And get out of the 16th century.

[SamIAM™]

i would keep on doin and doin it right untill my you know what is hurting and untill she was satsified

ur just saying that to get some :twisted:



lol, j/k

Good luck :mrgreen:

[renee]

i would keep on doin and doin it right untill my you know what is hurting and untill she was satsified

ur just saying that to get some :twisted:



lol, j/k

Good luck :mrgreen:

Oh, I see. It's ok for him to score but he tells the girls that sex outside of marriage is wrong. No wonder extcraja99 is as fudged-up as she is about men. :bang:

[SamIAM™]

i would keep on doin and doin it right untill my you know what is hurting and untill she was satsified

ur just saying that to get some :twisted:



lol, j/k

Good luck :mrgreen:

Oh, I see. It's ok for him to score but he tells the girls that sex outside of marriage is wrong. No wonder extcraja99 is as fudged-up as she is about men. :bang:


when did he say that,,,he's only got 2 posts, and none of them saythat :think:

[GreenEyeZchal705]

It was wrong in the 16th century too but whatever makes it right for you in your head Renee. Nothing like being open like a 7-11 for anyone who wants to come in using any part of him that he can to satisfy you....really classy.

[Armenian]

The quick answer for those who like it quick:
A guy that tends to bust quick nuts should concentrate more on foreplay before actually going to work. That way he can work the female closer to the excitement level he is at before actual penetration..

The long asnwer, for those who like it long:
Don't listen to every "macho" guy who says he can last for hours all the time everytime. Although that may or may not be true and is possible, every guy has busted a quick nut at least once in his life. Some more than others. And every guy has had a "moment" when an erection can not be achieved (at least once in his life).. It happens, just being honest. Unlike most males, I allow my male friends to talk openly with me about these issues and they find talking about it makes them feel better and DOES help them with their lady friends (especially if we joke about it. example: "oh it was like putting an oyster in a coin slot, it wasn't working"). Some guys just are more insecure about these issues and it turns into a "performance anxiety" which is a mental thing more than a physical thing. However, a married man with a patient wife can overcome quick orgasm through practice.

Steady monogamous sexual relationships can actually be better and more fulfilling than one night stands. For those who are virgins and saving it for marriage, keep in mind your first time with someone (be it your husband or wife) necessarily doesn’t mean it will be your best time with that person.. Nervousness can play a big role in not being able to fully enjoy yourself. Through time and getting to know your partner, it will improve ten fold. With a one night stand, Don't be surprised if you end up with a one minute or one second man.

There is females who also have sexual issues and hang-ups, so lets not leave that out! There is females that easily climax, some that take long, and some that can not climax at all (even with masturbation). There is females that also experience "Dryness" which is equivalent to the male issue of Erectile dysfunction. However, a females climax does not *always* make or break the sexual encounter as it is a lot of the responsibility on the male for actual performance. Females can also experience loss of libido and desire due to many reasons.

If you or your partner happens to have sexual issues, try to talk openly about it if your partner is willing. You will find it may help just talking about it, or you may learn things you didn’t know. If you are going to be open enough to share your body, you should be open enough to share your emotions, problems, and dysfunctions. You may learn that there is something that you are not doing that your partner would like, or you may just learn of your partners hang-ups or anxieties.

Hope this helps

[Corleone]

No comment. I have not experience these things nor do I want too at this age.
It grosses me out I'm sorry.

[Spoiledgal]

It was wrong in the 16th century too but whatever makes it right for you in your head Renee. Nothing like being open like a 7-11 for anyone who wants to come in using any part of him that he can to satisfy you....really classy.

:applause: :applause: :oops:

wat a thread! :!: :shock:

[Armenian]

look at you people.. Acting like little kids about this subject.. For Christ's sake.

[Spoiledgal]

Some of us r conservative and have self respect, don't forget values to. we r not use to discussing "wat happens" or should happen between a man and a women. try to respect that, n if u can't i reccommend u not criticise us. :disgusted:

Oh another thing u need to keep in mind, We r all different, so respect our differences!

[Armenian]

Being conservative has nothing to do with being informed about these issues.. One day you yourself may need to know these things and its better to be informed than clueless and confused.. Not talking about it is old fashioned.. In the past there was many things which you should never talk about. Now days we have highly educated doctors with Phd in Sexual Education.. Are you going to say they have no "self respect" either? Just because you are allergic to thier field of study?!?!? Now I gave my answer in a mature manner which should be perceived in a mature manner as well. Saying I have no self respect is very ignorant. Don’t deny these things and pretend they don‘t exist.. Educate yourself about them! You don’t like it spoiled gal.. TO BAD! There is some people that wish to discuss these issues even though you don’t.

[Emily]

i just wanted to know why he got off so fast

[Spoiledgal]

Being conservative has nothing to do with being informed about these issues.. One day you yourself may need to know these things and its better to be informed than clueless and confused.. Not talking about it is old fashioned.. In the past there was many things which you should never talk about. Now days we have highly educated doctors with Phd in Sexual Education.. Are you going to say they have no "self respect" either? Just because you are allergic to thier field of study?!?!? Now I gave my answer in a mature manner which should be perceived in a mature manner as well. Saying I have no self respect is very ignorant. Don’t deny these things and pretend they don‘t exist.. Educate yourself about them! You don’t like it spoiled gal.. TO BAD! There is some people that wish to discuss these issues even though you don’t.

first off i didn't criticize your comment nor did i imply that it was ignorant. i said if your not gonna respect other people different views then thats being ignorant (now u havn't respected my views so Yes ( u r ignorant)...
if i choose to be old fashion that is my choice...u or anybody else on site cannot expect me to change my outlook on topics like this. i don't kno if u heard of privacy some of us r more private then others soo lets try to accomadate that n if u can't ARMENIAN thats TOO BAD for u :bang:

[SamIAM™]

i just wanted to know why he got off so fast

I think u got ur answer