Chaldeans and divorce - Page 3 - Assyrian

John_5_24 · 07-19-2008, 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by LOTR1116

What you just said prompted my next question to you:

Do you personally feel that the rise of divorce comes from society's morals being ****ed up, (i'm giving the short end of a long list of reasons by saying that,) or do you agree with some secularist views that human beings are not truly meant to stay with one partner their entire life?

I blame the limousine liberal democrats of the 60s. Do some research, a lot of it started there

(I am only 1/2 joking)

DOOM · 07-19-2008, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Rita

I'd say morals on this rather than the other option. Also, add the lack of intelligence and common sense people have. But most importantly, I feel that the environment we live in today is always busy and on the go. We are used to getting everything instantly. Because of this, couples don't remember to be patient with one another and they also forget to stop and show appreciation for one another. Plus, it's easier to get a divorce than spend time to mend your relationship. Sad but true...

I agree. My marketing professor andI have had this same discussion. Instant self-gratification is a growing problem.

ojeen1981 · 07-20-2008, 12:35 AM

renee, ill write that book...just wait for it.

middle eastern culture just got the marriage thing right, or understood it better than the american culture...and the reasons for this are numerous, all of which will be discussed in my book

kevinjb · 07-18-2010, 09:55 AM

i think that the reason chaldeans stay married is in part of there cultural back ground there very family orientated.and most marriages need family approval.i married a chaldean woman who i thought was a good woman . but after we were together .she helped burn down her brothers store in detroit.then she was fired from work for stealing and since then arrested 2 times for shop lifting and finally she was having a sexual relationship with a black man and when i found out she devorced me and had this man move in with her and my 8 year old daughter had to see such a disgusting site and claiming what good christians chaldeans are .
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i think it is the liberal courts annd democrats responsible fot the break up of the family they are the ones who fight for kicking god out of schools ,i remember when i was young you could pray in scool now if you bring a bible to school you can get in trouble, democrats support abortion, gay marriages,and now you can devorce your husband or wife without just cause it used to be you had to show the court reasons for devorcing . the overall problem is the moral decline christian values. but didn't Jesus warn us this day will surely come

Caramel · 07-19-2010, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by kevinjb

i think that the reason chaldeans stay married is in part of there cultural back ground there very family orientated.and most marriages need family approval.i married a chaldean woman who i thought was a good woman . but after we were together .she helped burn down her brothers store in detroit.then she was fired from work for stealing and since then arrested 2 times for shop lifting and finally she was having a sexual relationship with a black man and when i found out she devorced me and had this man move in with her and my 8 year old daughter had to see such a disgusting site and claiming what good christians chaldeans are .
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i think it is the liberal courts annd democrats responsible fot the break up of the family they are the ones who fight for kicking god out of schools ,i remember when i was young you could pray in scool now if you bring a bible to school you can get in trouble, democrats support abortion, gay marriages,and now you can devorce your husband or wife without just cause it used to be you had to show the court reasons for devorcing . the overall problem is the moral decline christian values. but didn't Jesus warn us this day will surely come

What your wife did is disgusting. Don't take it out on this website. If you don't like it, get out of here.

sue41 · 07-26-2010, 02:12 AM

I have a friend who was involved with a chaldean man. They were friends first because of distance but apparently it became more than friends and after several years of knowing him, he tells her he is married! Men are men chaldean or not!

Manousakas · 07-26-2010, 07:49 AM

It must be a statistical anomaly that I know multiple chaldean marriages that have gone bitterly bad and others that are currently in shambles.

the whole chaldean marriage process in my opinion is a joke. it's not so much the part about not knowing each other, because good people will more often than not make good coupels, it's the fact of putting two people together that are not even ready to get married.

to be successful in marriage you need to be self-sufficient, and self-sacrificing. two things that don't get taught in many spoiled chaldean homes.

my suggestion. move out of your home, and don't get married for the wrong reasons (money, parental pressure, or because everyone else is doing it).

07-18-2010, 09:55 AM	#54
kevinjb Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Age: 54 Posts: 3 Rep Power: 0	i think that the reason chaldeans stay married is in part of there cultural back ground there very family orientated.and most marriages need family approval.i married a chaldean woman who i thought was a good woman . but after we were together .she helped burn down her brothers store in detroit.then she was fired from work for stealing and since then arrested 2 times for shop lifting and finally she was having a sexual relationship with a black man and when i found out she devorced me and had this man move in with her and my 8 year old daughter had to see such a disgusting site and claiming what good christians chaldeans are . - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - i think it is the liberal courts annd democrats responsible fot the break up of the family they are the ones who fight for kicking god out of schools ,i remember when i was young you could pray in scool now if you bring a bible to school you can get in trouble, democrats support abortion, gay marriages,and now you can devorce your husband or wife without just cause it used to be you had to show the court reasons for devorcing . the overall problem is the moral decline christian values. but didn't Jesus warn us this day will surely come Last edited by kevinjb; 07-18-2010 at 09:55 AM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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07-20-2008, 12:35 AM	#53
ojeen1981 Senior Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: michigan Age: 28 Posts: 2,443 Rep Power: 8	renee, ill write that book...just wait for it. middle eastern culture just got the marriage thing right, or understood it better than the american culture...and the reasons for this are numerous, all of which will be discussed in my book

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sue41 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Age: 41 Posts: 1 Rep Power: 0	I have a friend who was involved with a chaldean man. They were friends first because of distance but apparently it became more than friends and after several years of knowing him, he tells her he is married! Men are men chaldean or not!

07-26-2010, 07:49 AM	#57
Manousakas Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Astoria, NY Age: 29 Posts: 45 Rep Power: 0	It must be a statistical anomaly that I know multiple chaldean marriages that have gone bitterly bad and others that are currently in shambles. the whole chaldean marriage process in my opinion is a joke. it's not so much the part about not knowing each other, because good people will more often than not make good coupels, it's the fact of putting two people together that are not even ready to get married. to be successful in marriage you need to be self-sufficient, and self-sacrificing. two things that don't get taught in many spoiled chaldean homes. my suggestion. move out of your home, and don't get married for the wrong reasons (money, parental pressure, or because everyone else is doing it).

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